关于什么时候最好开始厕所训练的问题，没有一个正确的答案。部分是因为每一种文化都会以不同的方式接近厕所训练，也是因为每个孩子都不同很明显的是，为了对厕所进行培训，对儿童产生过度压力至少可以反对生产，如果不是有害的。厕所列车的最佳方法是使其成为一个有趣和轻松的活动。因此，当您的小孩开始对自己的排便和便盆感兴趣时，您应该开始。一个早期的迹象是，他们已经开始沟通，并可以告诉你，当他们有一个湿的尿布。下一步是让他们自己弄湿之后立即告诉他们。显示他们准备好的最后一个标志是当他们开始预期润湿他们的尿布时。
通常的孩子会发现这种自我意识的感觉，以及自己在二点半左右做事情的愿望。在玩游戏的时候，可以让他们坐在便盆上，鼓励他们去玩便盆。你应该让他们看你去便盆。尝试安排白天（约每小时）的便盆时间。也使活动乐趣无压力。如果他们拿起他们的船尾来告诉你，可以自由地笑起来，祝贺他们，同时也警告他们这条船很脏。
早期的厕所训练的潮流开始于第一次世界大战后美国，当时母亲经常被孤独照顾大家庭。由于这是尿布前的时候，妇女每天都要洗几十块布尿布。必要的是，他们需要试图限制使用的尿布数量，只需要有时间来做余下的工作。这导致早期便盆训练的推动。还有一个信念，来自于弗洛伊德和其他人的误读，早期的便盆训练对于孩子来说是健康的。早期便盆训练的儿童最终将成为更清洁的成年人，并拥有更多的自我控制能力。推动早期厕所训练是如此之大，以致许多家长觉得如果拒绝厕所训练，就被迫严惩他们的孩子。
我们从这个经验中学到的是，即使在这样的压力下，孩子们仍然没有得到早期的训练，其实很多这些孩子在3岁以下的床上湿润，或者面临其他的心理伤害，如抑郁症或侵略行为。
提高孩子信心，让他们接受培训的最好办法是做好准备，而不是以前做的事情。
There is no single correct answer to the question about what time is best to begin toilet training. In part because every culture approaches toilet training differently, but also because every child is different. What is clear is that producing excess stress on the child in order to toilet train them can be at least counter productive if not harmful. The optimal way to toilet train is by making it a fun and light hearted activity. Therefore, you should begin when your child starts showing an interest in their own bowel movements and the potty. One early sign is that they have begun to communicate and can tell you when they have a wet diaper. The next step is for them to be able to tell immediately after they have wet themselves. The last sign showing they are ready is when they have begun to anticipate wetting their diaper.
Children usual develop this sense of self-awareness as well as the desire to do things themselves around 2 1/2. You can encourage them to go potty by having them sit on the potty while they play a game. You should have them watch you go to the potty. Try to schedule potty times during the day (about every hour). Also make the activity fun and stress free. If they pick up their poop to show you, feel free to laugh and congratulate them while also warning them that poop is dirty.
The fad for early toilet training began in post WWI America when mothers were often left alone to care for large families. Since this was the time before diapers the women had to wash dozens of cloth diapers a day. Necessarily, they needed to try to limit the number of diapers used, simply have time to do the rest of the day's work. This resulted in a push for early potty training. There was also the belief, taken from misreadings of Freud and others, that early potty training was healthy for the child. Children that were potty trained early would end up being cleaner adults and having more self control. The push for early toilet training was so great that many parents felt compelled to severely punish their children if they resisted toilet training.
What we have learned from this experience is that even under such pressure the children still were not trained early, in fact, many of these children either relapsed by wetting their beds in their 3s or faced other psychological damage such as depression or fits of aggression.
The best way to boost your child's confidence and have them trained is to do it when they are ready and not before.
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